1. Helps me clean the house...as opposed to watching me clean, from the couch.
2. Gets up with the kids during the night just as much as I do.
3. Doesn't even bat an eyelash if I propose a girls' night out.
4. Mops the floors occasionally...without me asking.
5. Never suggests that I take the trash out.
6. Pulls the early shift with the kids and lets me sleep late (as in past 6am) on Saturday mornings.
7. Will occasionally wear a shirt that I know he HATES, but he knows I LOVE.
8. Notices if my hair is styled differently than usual.
9. Lets me have the "good" chocolate out of the Halloween candy.
10. Plays with our kids...and enjoys it.
11. Laughs at my jokes...even the super dumb ones.
12. Holds my hand when we're walking.
13. Surprises me sometimes with something that he knows I either love, or really wanted, but wouldn't buy for myself.
14. Watches my favorite T.V. show with me, even though he HATES it.
15. Calls or texts me just to ask how my day is going every now and then.
16. Starts my car and scrapes the windshield for me when it's super cold in the morning...without me even asking.
17. Gets along with my family.
18. Defends me if someone is treating me badly.
19. Drives on long trips so I can put my feet up on the dashboard and read my Kindle.
20. Comes home with wine and a Redbox movie for a post kid-bedtime date night.
I'm not saying that he does all of these things every day; but I AM saying that he does them, I recognize them, and I appreciate them.
As a side note: It's never a bad idea to tell your husband "Thanks!" when he does something without you asking....then he'll usually be in more generous mood later when you DO ask for something (you know you will). Just a thought...*wink*
Also, in closing, sorry to have slightly misled you with the word "sex" in the title. This was probably not the kind of list you thought it was going to be. However, when you have been together for a while and have a few kids....this IS what's sexy.
Happy list writing! ;)
♥M
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